Natural Birth

trusting the process of childbirth

Natural Birth Welcome Post
Welcome to the Natural Birthing Community!
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In this community, we consider the definition of natural childbirth to be a labor that begins spontaneously and does not involve the use of medication or intervention during the birth process.

This community is for anyone supportive of natural pregnancy and childbirth. We are pro-breastfeeding, supportive of homebirth, unassisted birth, birth center and natural hospital birth. We encourage members to take charge of the choices and management of their health care.

Pregnancy and childbirth are normal aspects of the life cycle. There is much to be learned by listening to ourselves and our bodies during childbearing.

Posts relating to natural family living are welcome within the community, in addition to those addressing TTC, pregnancy, childbirth, postpartum and breastfeeding.

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New Member, New at Most Things
Hi everyone,

I recently resuscitated my LiveJournal presence after I found out I was pregnant. Maybe a weird choice, but after futile searches online for websites and forums that aren't hellbent on body-shaming, misogynist-consumerism, I thought I'd dip my toes back into this world. I found your forum, which seems like a wonderful space that shares my birthing ideologies.

I'm currently 11 weeks pregnant, and this is my first. Like I said, I've been struggling to find literature (online and otherwise) that favors natural birthing. So I thought I'd begin by asking, if there are any reading recommendations that anyone has of any shape or form, I would be hugely grateful!

Thanks so much, and I'm happy to be here!


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I sure hope fathers are allowed, and I'm not going to be removed (only half way joking) :), I tried pushing my wife to join. Something along the lines of, "No, not going to. You can join if you want to." I'm not forcing someone to write about anything personal. I got it, she's not as personal as I may be about life. But I hope a little intro doesn't bother you guys...gals and if it does I apologize but I figured it's better to do so than to clue someone in at special parts.

We did start a little later, than most couples now a days to start a family. I'm 30, she's soon to be 29. We're expecting our first daugher in January, we only found out by means of the Harmony test, I know groan if you want, we techinically weren't at risk for anything I believe it's better safe than sorry. You're free to read my main journal if you want to know the name we picked out.

Yes, we're 100% on the natural childbirth, as for medication free, not so sure about home birth only because I don't feel that home birth in an apartment sounds like a great idea and with our zoo of animals it sounds like a bit of a pain. well I guess I'm not the one that has the ultimate say, again I'm only the input.

Maybe someone can tell me what we're missing so far, we have yet to have a birthplan down pat and still need to talk to our doula about it, we just need to figure everything out, it's still slightly early in the game, so far hydrobirth is along the lines of natural, water isn't medicated (or last I knew), we have our amazing doula, and our midwife, and our hospital is honestly a mile and half from our apartment, and like I said, I don't think the animals would take to any babies being born in an apartment,. So is there something missing.

I'm trying to keep her as active as possible, I can't have her on my activity level, my midwife said what I do may be too intensive for anyone, even for her. I dont blame her, something about being way too active, and falling too much...not good on developing babies, our diet if it bothers or offends anyone, its strictly meat free, and it can get on people's nerves because "pregnant women need protien and quinoa and avacado don't have what the baby needs (so if any one who can give some options for protien packed ideas are free to chime in ). We both tried to read that Natural Pregnancy book by Janet however the heck you spell her last name and I'm not going to go searching for a book, and it didn't help much, it was the most useless book ever. Sorry.

There now I either made the pregnant women fall asleep, confused some of you, or something. If there's anything I forgot to include or ask feel free to let me know. It's my first time and I'm clueless.

Sweetening the Pill - a documentary by Abby Epstein and Ricki Lake
Might be interesting to natural birthers, and they need backing urgently.

Filmmakers Ricki Lake and Abby Epstein will investigate our current and future choices for contraception in this feature documentary

inviting people to the birth?
winter snowflake
Hi all, I am pregnant with my second child and planning my second homebirth. Last time it was just my husband and I and the midwives, so this time I would like to invite our close family (our moms and my sister-in-law). I am putting together a list of things for them to consider before deciding to come to the birth, like "You will need to do what the midwives ask without question." What would you put on this list?

Suggestions needed for a friend in labour please!
Hello I just received a message from a friend who is interested in having a natural birth. Please note this is happening in Sweden. Here is the message:

Been in labor for more than 24 hrs and made great progress until 3:30am this morning. Then things slowed down and became irregular again. Went to hospital for check up this morning and sent home with some meds to help me rest. Contractions are powerful but progress not great. We have been out walking. Any other suggestions of what I can do to get things moving? I don't want to land up too tired to deliver this baby...


Thanks in advance!

Natural birth and Diastatis Recti
Hello everyone,

I'm pregnant with my second.

During my first pregnancy my stomach muscles separated and never really came back together. I pushed for over 5 hours before the baby was finally out (after a doctor was called and assisted me with a vacuum).

I was hoping to be able to push the baby out unassisted this time, but reading about abdomen muscle separation it seems it makes pushing quite a bit more difficult. It might even be the reason it went down that way for me the first time around.

My question is rather specific but I'm eager to ask it anyway...

Has anyone here had muscle separation with one pregnancy and a difficulty to push and went on to push without issues in subsequent pregnancies?

cross posted from due date community
So we didn't want an ultrasound this time, and i told myself we wouldn't get one unless medically indicated. Well, then i gained 10lbs in a month and measured 4 weeks ahead. 22cm at 18w.

I said i wanted one but now am thinking of at least waiting one more month and seeing if that growth stays steady, picks up even more drastically, or slows down to be more where it should be.

third baby, never measured ahead before, either time. ugh. if only we didn't have to pay for the u/s out of pocket.

plus, i'm scared i'll lose my resolve about being surprised if someone's already in there poking around. i've seen enough of those things that if a winky went by on the screen, i'm sure i'd know what i was looking at.

advice welcome i guess. but be nice.

Birth Story
My second baby, Madeleine Joy, was born on November 23rd into my hands.

I wanted to share my birth story here.  I'm no writer and I certainly haven't had time to edit so please ignore my mistakes. :)

Homebirth Birth Plans
Chesire Cat
Does anybody have a home birth, birth plan that they would be able to share with me, or direct me to?

I had a birth centre birth with my first son, I did have a birth plan but I can't find it anywhere on my laptop.

I will be having a doula as well, if that makes any difference!

Thanks ! 

List of Affirmations
I'm 35.5 weeks w/ my second.  This will be my 2nd homebirth.  My midwife has asked me to come up with 2 lists.  The first she called a list of "affirmations"; birth positive messages that might mean something to me during labor.  Can y'all help me with that?  Anything that stuck out to you during labor?  Links?

The second list she wanted was a list of "expectations" for each person who will be present at the birth.  For sure, it will be midwife, her assistant, my husband, and my nearly 3 year old son.  It will possibly include my MIL & FIL, whom we have invited to help watch our son, if necessary.  Can you help me out with this too?  I don't want to sound bossy in the "expectations" or anything but she is right it is better to be clear about what I am wanting from everyone.  What would have been on your list or what did you tell your birth attendants & others present about your expectations?



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